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This article will address a typically Asian phenomenon, 'tiger parenting', however, it is my experience that people from the West are...

The two articles published by the BBC this week (see below) are a good reminder of yet another dialogue we are not having: sex in the latter years of life. Let's remember that we have the potential to be sexual until the end of our days. Needs change with age and we can do more to educate people to healthily enjoy their partnerships and sexual activities, no matter the age.

It takes courage to sit still for a moment and look within... really look within. Only few are willing to take a moment of pause and look at that part of us that we know is there, is suffering, is calling for attention, but that it is too painful to intentionally look at. And yet, it is from those moments, and by looking in the abyss, that we often emerge renewed...

Readers asked, “We are married for a long time and have no more passion. How can we reignite our passion?”

Men and women alike often lack the information that is sufficient to build healthy, reasonable expectations about sex and end up stressed and dissatisfied with their sex lives.

The inescapable truth is that we all have questions, fears, inhibitions and hang ups about relationships and sexuality. And that rare are the opportunities to openly address relationship and sexuality questions.

How do you find the right partner? What is the right partner? Is there such a thing?

There is sometimes damage (often unintentional) that parents can deliver to our relationships, and this can happen frequently.

Talk more openly about sex to improve your relationship.

There are many valid reasons why birth rates aren't rising, but they may not tell the whole story. In my experience of talking to people on the ground, two other factors emerge: 1. Lack of information and 2. Misplaced expectations

Masculine is the energy of Power (Strength-Weakness) and Feminine the energy of Love (Caring-Uncaring). Refer to the the quadrant to visualise this complex system.

A study from 2010 found that 20-30% of participants were sexually active well into their 80’s. Be comfortable in the knowledge that we can feel sexual at most stages of life.

The pressures to keep quiet about sex, is not only an individual one. It is also a systemic one. I work with people who are concerned with improving the quality of their lives and relationships.

Pornography has long been a hotly debated subject. To many, it is the evil of society, to others just another form of human expression. So, which one is it? Is it good or bad? Are there pros and cons on the use of pornography?

“How can we have great sex?” is an important and difficult question. It is also one I am asked frequently. It is an important question because sex and sexuality are central parts of our lives. “Breaking” or disrupting the flow of either is likely to have a negative impact on our work performance, our relationships or other aspects of life.

We are conditioned to believe that the relationship between a man and a woman is the world natural order. After all, it if from this type of relationship that procreation and the continuation of the species come from. Relationships have evolved into a range of options, each “designed” to fulfil our unique and different needs.

a sexless relationship is one where a couple has sex 10 or fewer times in 1 year, and it estimates that 15-20% of married couples go without sex for 6-12 months consecutively. The figures per se are meaningless. It is more important to ask if you are happy with the amount of sex you have in your relationship. If not, this article may help you.

Sex is an integral part of our identity and erotic love is an important part of a relationship to be nurtured for a balanced healthy life.

1. Orgasm is separate from ejaculation and the two can happen independently. 2. Orgasm can happen multiple times during a sexual encounter – for most men, not just studs. 3. Orgasm is not a necessary condition for fulfilling and satisfying sex.