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My Interview on 93.8Live: Talk more openly about sex to improve your relationship
Talk more openly about sex to improve your relationship.
Oberdan Marianetti
Jun 27, 20161 min read


How to have more babies in Singapore
There are many valid reasons why birth rates aren't rising, but they may not tell the whole story.
In my experience of talking to people on the ground, two other factors emerge:
1. Lack of information and
2. Misplaced expectations
Oberdan Marianetti
Jun 20, 20163 min read


Life Lessons From A 3 Year Old - Our Inner Child
There are life lessons that come to us when we least expect them.
The child within is a wonderful part of us that will never abandon us, and that will always require some level of attention. Caring and looking after the child within helps us integrate ourselves into fuller human beings.
Oberdan Marianetti
Jun 8, 20163 min read


TED Talk - Tackling The Global Epidemic Of Workplace Unhappiness
Our lives are conditioned by other people's scripts.
We grow up being told what to do, what to say and ultimately what to be.
We need to snap out of this collective trance, and become the leaders of our live, both at work and in our relationships.
Oberdan Marianetti
May 28, 20161 min read


Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy
Masculine is the energy of Power (Strength-Weakness) and Feminine the energy of Love (Caring-Uncaring).
Refer to the the quadrant to visualise this complex system.
Oberdan Marianetti
May 19, 20164 min read


Sex and Relationships In Later Life
A study from 2010 found that 20-30% of participants were sexually active well into their 80’s.
Be comfortable in the knowledge that we can feel sexual at most stages of life.
Oberdan Marianetti
May 10, 20163 min read


Let's Talk About Sex With a Clinical Sexologist
The pressures to keep quiet about sex, is not only an individual one. It is also a systemic one.
I work with people who are concerned with improving the quality of their lives and relationships.
Oberdan Marianetti
Apr 19, 20163 min read


Is Pornography Good Or Bad?
Pornography has long been a hotly debated subject. To many, it is the evil of society, to others just another form of human expression.
So, which one is it? Is it good or bad?
Are there pros and cons on the use of pornography?
Oberdan Marianetti
Apr 6, 20164 min read


3 Lessons I Learned From A SLAP IN THE FACE
Setbacks and disapointment can be wake up calls.
What you can learn from them:
1. Put aside knowledge.
2. Connect to the now
3.Challenge the ego
Oberdan Marianetti
Mar 22, 20163 min read


How Can We Have Great Sex? Answers by a Clinical Sexologist
“How can we have great sex?” is an important and difficult question. It is also one I am asked frequently.
It is an important question because sex and sexuality are central parts of our lives. “Breaking” or disrupting the flow of either is likely to have a negative impact on our work performance, our relationships or other aspects of life.
Oberdan Marianetti
Mar 16, 20163 min read


7 Real Alternatives To Monogamy
We are conditioned to believe that the relationship between a man and a woman is the world natural order. After all, it if from this type of relationship that procreation and the continuation of the species come from.
Relationships have evolved into a range of options, each “designed” to fulfil our unique and different needs.
Oberdan Marianetti
Mar 2, 20164 min read


4 Steps To Revive A Sexless Relationship - By a Clinical Sexologist
a sexless relationship is one where a couple has sex 10 or fewer times in 1 year, and it estimates that 15-20% of married couples go without sex for 6-12 months consecutively.
The figures per se are meaningless. It is more important to ask if you are happy with the amount of sex you have in your relationship.
If not, this article may help you.
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 25, 20163 min read


Rediscover Your Sexual Essence
Sex is an integral part of our identity and erotic love is an important part of a relationship to be nurtured for a balanced healthy life.
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 17, 20163 min read


Men Can Have Multiple Orgasms Too
1. Orgasm is separate from ejaculation and the two can happen independently.
2. Orgasm can happen multiple times during a sexual encounter – for most men, not just studs.
3. Orgasm is not a necessary condition for fulfilling and satisfying sex.
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 3, 20163 min read


Depression Is A Silent Killer
How many of your loved ones silently struggle without ever asking for help?
How many of your colleagues put up a façade for fear of judgment or stigma?
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 27, 20161 min read


Expat life: curse or blessing?
What you probably did not account for during expatriation is the impact that all this change has on you. Everything you knew and were familiar with is gone; everything that has replaced it is new and unpredictable.
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 19, 20162 min read


Ask Your Doctor About Sex
Sex is taboo for most of us.
The messages we grow up with are often negative and shameful…our sexual behaviour is affected, our mindset is affected.
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 12, 20162 min read


How To See Your Reality In 3 Steps
Our reality is heavily biased by our memories, even those that are long gone.
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 1, 20162 min read


We are born with infinite potential, rediscover it!
We are born with our hands full. That’s why as newborn babies we clench our fists. Because we have the best gifts we could ever wish for: innocence, curiosity, a will to live.
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 23, 20152 min read
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