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The Lack of Confidence Due to Parental Rejection
As adults, one of the factors that contributes to our lack in self-confidence can be due to emotional rejection or neglect in our...
Gloria Tay
Mar 8, 20222 min read


A Balanced Workplace for All
Can you relate to the picture above? Many can. In my 2015 TEDx talk on ‘the global epidemic of workplace unhappiness’ I reported that 87%...
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 22, 20226 min read


How Children Cope with Emotional Loneliness
A child who is experiencing emotional loneliness can be in great distress that they will do almost anything to create any kind of...
Gloria Tay
Feb 8, 20222 min read


Drawing Maps
As we walk about our daily lives we get to draw a map of the world we see. Our parents, our life experiences and the people we encounter along the way, each shaping a unique version of this map.
At some point we meet someone important and they too come equipped with a unique map of the territory they explored thus far.
It would be so easy, to believe that the map we hold is the correct version of reality.
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 25, 20223 min read


Emotional Intimacy
Our childhood experiences play a part in moulding us to be who we are as adults. Unfortunately, as children we cannot choose how we want...
Gloria Tay
Jan 12, 20222 min read


The Power of Equanimity
The end of year is a time when many of us pause to take stock of the time passed and to assess how to best move forward with the time...
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 31, 20214 min read


The Feather and the Wound
Too much or too little anger in our heart, and we would die.
That’s right, our organism not only needs balance in its physical form, but also in its emotional, intellectual and spiritual forms. Then it can be considered healthy.
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 7, 20215 min read


Emotional Bank Accounts
Think about the time when you first dated your loved one. You most likely remember the time as a joyous, exciting and fulfilling phase of...
Oberdan Marianetti
Oct 26, 20214 min read


The Pressures of External Demands
We live hectic lives! I imagine that most of you would agree with the above statement. Few are the people in today’s world, who found a...
Oberdan Marianetti
Sep 30, 20214 min read


Unnecessary Judgment and Blame
I realised that most of us constantly judge and blame ourselves for some things that actually warrant no judgment or blame. I often go...
Oberdan Marianetti
Sep 1, 20214 min read


Videogames are just like life
It’s not uncommon to feel like life is a never-ending set of twists and turns, often unexpected, always somewhat challenging. Over the...
Oberdan Marianetti
Jul 30, 20214 min read


What can business teach us about relationships?
What can business teach us about relationships? I would say quite a lot. Today I want to follow up on my video from two weeks ago, where...
Oberdan Marianetti
Jun 30, 20214 min read


Feel happier by clearly distinguishing between ‘change’ and ‘outcomes’
You may recall the video we sent a couple of weeks ago. If you have not seen it, I would thoroughly recommend you watch it. It is my...
Oberdan Marianetti
May 25, 20213 min read


The Clown
You may recall the video we sent a couple of weeks ago. If you have not seen it, I would thoroughly recommend you watch it. The clown is...
Oberdan Marianetti
Apr 30, 20216 min read


To Stress Or Not To Stress?
Today I want to share the third analogy I frequently use in my sessions with clients. “What disturbs men’s minds is not events but their...
Oberdan Marianetti
Mar 30, 20214 min read


The Dashboard
You are driving to an important meeting that you cannot miss, and you are running late. Suddenly you see a yellow/orange light flashing...
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 23, 20214 min read


You Are Both the Gardener and the Plant
image credit: pixabay Storytelling has afforded humans the opportunity to survive and evolve over the millennia; their power to convey...
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 26, 20216 min read


Reflections from 2 weeks of total isolation
It is the 19th of September, I am talking to my daughter on a video call and she says, “I have to go to the toilet daddy”. While...
Oberdan Marianetti
Oct 26, 20207 min read


Transitioning to Online Therapy
A week plus into the Singapore Circuit Breaker - the label chosen by the Government to describe the restrictions to curb the COVID-19...
Oberdan Marianetti
Apr 16, 20205 min read


OM-ICE January 2020 - Chua
Happy Monday everyone. Trust your innate power, it's there, it has always been there, it's just hidden under many layers of past...
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 24, 20201 min read
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